Saturday, March 22, 2014

Observing Communication


I chose to observe an art class for four and five year olds at a private art gallery.  I watched for approximately ten minutes focusing specifically on the interactions between a five year old and the assistant instructor.  The instructor delivered an interdiction and gave directions for making the art project.  Then one child needed some extra help getting started and the assistant came over to assist him.  The dialog was as follows:

Assistant, “Do you need some help?”

Child, “Yes, I don’t want to make a tree.”

Assistant, “Well, this is the assignment for today, but when you finish you could work on another project if you would like.”

Child, “I don’t really want to make a tree.”

Assistant, “How could I help you get started?”

Child instructs on what he would like to do instead of the tree, and the teacher helps child to realize how the tree and his plan could work together.

During the process I observed the child silently working, and the assistant consistently giving the child praise.  The praise was very general; “Good job.  That’s it.  I like that.”

The child finished the tree project, and looked at the assistant and said, “Did I do good?”

The aspect of effective communication that I thought stood out to be glaringly missing was, the lack of specific feedback.  Dangel and Durden (2010) stated the importance of specific feedback to, “let children know their teacher values their efforts and accomplishments” (p. 76).  However, the assistant did make a connection to the child’s life when she showed him how the tree assignment was similar to what he wanted to do (Dangei & Durden, 2010). 

                The communication interactions with the general feedback may have negatively impacted the child’s self-worth, but I also believe her attention to what he was interested in positively impacted his self-worth.  Overall, I believe the child had a positive feeling towards the project and the assistant, by the look on his face and his body language towards the assistant.

                I believe we can always improve in our communication with children.  I believe it is something that can always evolve and grow.  However, this has been a goal of mine over the past two years.  I have working on the simple parts of language such as self-talk to model language and vocabulary to specific feedback, to listening and following the lead of the child in conversations with children.  Each child is unique and learning their communication preferences is the key to successful communication.

 

References
Dangei & Durden, T. R. (2010). The nature of teacher talk during small group activities. YC: Young Children, 65(1), 74-81. Retrieved from the Walden Library using the Education Research Complete database.

3 comments:

  1. Enjoyed reading your post Amber! I also believe each child is unique in learning their communication preferences. We all know that working with families can be satisfying and can also be frustrating, but it's good to have that partnership. When we observe children it's for us to understand them better, their strengths and also their difficulties.

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  2. Great post. I like the way the assistant bridge together the assignment and what the child wanted to do. They did not ignore the interest of the child but found a way to include it in what the actual assignment was. Appealing to the interest of the child was a great way to motivate her to do the assignment at hand. Also providing praise is a great way to encourage the child. I do agree that it could have been more specific to what the child was doing that was great.

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  3. Hi Amber,

    I enjoyed reading your post. It made me realise that I am guilty of giving non-specific praise such as 'good job' to a child. When they hear what they are doing well specifically they will feel supported and it will also help them to build their confidence if they know exactly what they are doing is working. Thanks for sharing!

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